Creatively Used Cages

Cages can be hot from a number of angles; degradation, captivity, kenneling for pup play, etc, but they've never really done much for me in and of themselves. I think mixing cages and watersports or some other activity that the sub has no choice but to endure due to the confined space could be wicked hot, but the bondage pig in me wants more restrictive storage.

That being said, the bondage pig in me LOVES that there are dozens of tie-points and potential positions depending on the dimensions of a cage. Here are a few that I can't even glance at without getting rock-hard. One of the hotter concepts here is having part of your body outside the cage, almost tauntingly.

Beginner's Bondage Kit

I've bought a lot of gear in my day, as most have seen from my personal photos. One thing I've learned is that some gear, however hot it is, will sit in your closet collecting dust and only get used every tenth scene or so. While this is fine for more advanced players who may have more scripted/sculpted scenes, a beginner should strive for versatility so they can find what works, what doesn't, and where to go from there.

The gear listed after the jump will cost about $540 pre-tax/shipping (or just over $600 if you get two collars to use for restraints). It might take a few months to scrape up the cash, but once you do you'll have a gear collection that's adaptable enough for a slew of scenes - both private and public - and which will last for years.

Neglect and Vanilla Boys

I've been INCREDIBLY busy with moving to a new apartment, and now that I'm FINALLY settled in it's IML weekend. I wanted to take a moment to comment on the event.

Most people involved in the fetish community even remotely are familiar with International Mr. Leather, a group that comprises a good portion of my readers. Unfortunately, a good portion of people are nervous to attend such a large event. If you're in Chicago, come by and pay $5 for a single day pass to the vendor's mart. It's cheaper than a movie, and even if you AREN'T curious about kink you might still learn something useful.

Most booths are very hands-on, and it's good to be able to see things first-hand. Even if things don't particularly pique your interest, you never know when the information be useful - especially with future partners. If relationships are about compromise, the more you're aware of the more likely you will be to satisfy a partner.

Duct Tape

Since the roommate and I have been "busy" packing, I've been finding it incredibly hard to resist the temptation to play with the tape. I've actually always wanted to do a packing tape mummification; seems like it may be more rigid than duct tape. Regardless, duct tape is still a really fun medium for bondage in the right circumstances.

Gag-tease

If I'm in the right headspace, servicing boots and feet can really get me going. I actually had to be taken out of chastity in a recent scene because servicing his feet while he was abusing my balls had me hard for so long my balls turned a really dangerous-looking shade of purple. I've got a few guys who, just to frustrate me, won't let me lick their boots/feet without permission, even if they're in my face. Being gagged when either is in my face usually gets me frustrated enough to start whimpering pretty quickly. Reversing roles I've had some success frustrating the HELL out of guys who like kissing or sucking, or really any such fixation.

Porn Organizing

I'm very mood-oriented when it comes to sex, so I try to keep my porn and stills at least roughly categorized. Some days I might be in a lighter mood and want something sensual like edging, others I might want my balls beat until I'm screaming and need a vid of someone suffering. Usually if I'm not sure exactly what mood I'm in, I'll just flip through my unsorted folder until something makes my cock twitch. Apparently I need to be careful, as the following sequence of photos ended with my boner totally being killed.

Over-Stimulation

One of my favorite things to do as a Dom (or sub - drives me up the wall) is to use a guy's cock against him. Some people call it rosy-palming some call it polishing the apple, but basically it involves rubbing your palm or fingers in circles over a guy's cockhead. If you've never had it done, you can just as easily do it to yourself to see what all the fuss is about. I love doing this to a guy every time he says he's close to make him relent the fact he can't keep himself from getting close, and doing it post-orgasm is just brutal as hell as you can see in this video. The guy cums about halfway through the video, and that's when it gets interesting.

Control is Best When Stolen (Day 1)

IML is fast-approaching, and having chatted with a good number of new Doms recently the fantasy part of my libido is running on overdrive. I DO want to add a disclaimer that having force-oriented fantasies like this is not a free pass for anyone who reads it to carry it out just because they could. Even in the story, the person involved is someone who was already being called Sir - keep that in mind.

The story text (after the jump) itself might not be wankable, but hopefully some of the ideas are. It's pretty much in alignment with the recurring "legitimate control" theme of this blog, so some folk who enjoyed some of the other posts may enjoy this one.

Self-Bondage

One of my biggest pet peeves is that it seems like 2/3 of the videos on Xtube are self-vids. Call me an ass, but no: I REALLY don't want to watch you beat your own balls unless I'm telling you to on webcam. If it's of your own volition, you're not going to be doing it hard enough, so what's the point? It just makes it harder for the rest of us to find vids of guys who are tough enough to actually have their balls beaten by another man. Same goes for the self-bondage stuff I was doing when I was a kid; if you're going to do self-bondage *and post a vid of it,* at least make it interesting.

This guy did. Essentially he's forced to do leg-lifts or his balls will be shocked when his feet drop. The plan was to bury the key for his relief in a bowl of coins, and he starts looking for the key about 1:45 in. Around 5:30 he starts to freak out a little when he realizes that he's not going to have any luck finding the key, and his reactions start to get a little more desperate. My favorite part is about 7 mins in when he uses the backup method to get out and frantically scrambles to undo his feet to stop the shocking. You can't fake that kind of urgency.

Hot Guys, Hot Feet

If I had the good fortune of meeting any of these gentlemen, I'd be on the floor at their feet so fast I'd leave a cartoon-like cloud where I was standing.