Fucking

Sex hasn't ever really been my thing, as anyone following this blog should know. While normal people start having sex and later explore kink, I skipped straight straight past sex and never really took a liking to it; oral or anal. When I was living in Dallas, a lot of guys not only took issue with it but outright treated me like I was the only person to ever feel that way. It wasn't until moving to Chicago and getting involved in the kink community that I met a few like-minded guys. I'm a self-confident person so the naysayers never really got to me, but it was still a relief to meet guys who shared the same sentiment. It honestly pains me to think that there are similar guys out there who might be more affected by the ridicule.

Lately what has given sex some modicum of appeal in spite of my long-standing lack of interest is the idea of it being approached similar to humiliation. Of course generally sex is a mutual thing and supposed to bring both parties pleasure, but things like chastity, forced orgasm beforehand, or certain positions can make it apparent that mutual enjoyment isn't the intent. It's easy to imagine someone owning your cock when it's locked up but, barring an ass lock, it can be a little more difficult to feel your ass is owned. But when you're tied so your ass is stuck in the air, can't move it an inch, and your cock's locked up, it's not really "sex" any more so much as Sir fucking a hole He owns. Of course it's possible to experience the same with a more mild execution, but either way it's a fucking hot notion.